lsi53c895a: add support for ABORT messages

If these messages are not handled correctly the guest driver may hang.

Always mandatory:
- ABORT
- BUS DEVICE RESET

Mandatory if tagged queuing is implemented (which disks usually do):
- ABORT TAG
- CLEAR QUEUE

Signed-off-by: Bernhard Kohl <bernhard.kohl@nsn.com>
Signed-off-by: Aurelien Jarno <aurelien@aurel32.net>
(cherry picked from commit 508240c0)