net/sched: Rename user cookie and act cookie

struct tc_action->act_cookie is a user defined cookie,
and the related struct flow_action_entry->act_cookie is
used as an handle similar to struct flow_cls_offload->cookie.

Rename tc_action->act_cookie to user_cookie, and
flow_action_entry->act_cookie to cookie so their names
would better fit their usage.

Signed-off-by: Paul Blakey <paulb@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Marcelo Ricardo Leitner <marcelo.leitner@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>